Lessons from a meeting with Joke Silva

I recently had the privilege of spending time with Joke Silva MFR, a woman whose life and career have inspired generations of women, myself included. Beyond her remarkable contribution to the Nigerian film industry, what stood out most to me was her grace, authenticity, and unwavering commitment to both her craft and her family. Her …

Stop Confusing Agreement With Clarity

I’ve watched deals fall apart not because the parties disagreed, but because they thought they agreed when they didn’t. Both sides left the room nodding. Both sides had completely different pictures of what had just been decided. Agreement is a feeling. Clarity is a document, or at minimum a clear verbal summary that both parties …

The Small Moments Are Where Your Reputation Lives

The professionals I’ve watched build genuinely strong reputations — the ones who are trusted with more, recommended for opportunities, and whose departures are actually felt — tend to share certain habits. They do what they say. They communicate proactively when something changes. They’re generous without being naive. They hold a standard that isn’t dependent on whether anyone is watching.